Wednesday, September 9, 2015

St. John Baptist de La Salle's Leadership and Life Lessons



             St. John Baptist de La Salle was born from a wealthy family in Reims, France. He was the oldest among his four brothers and two sisters. During his time he grew up surrounded by the poor; many were hungry, in despair and ignorant. If others were given a chance to be in his shoes, most would probably settle down and look after his family and preserve their wealth and legacy the best that they can. St. La Salle wasn’t one of those people; he had a different way of looking into life. This was his higher purpose, to serve the poor and to provide education for everyone regardless of their social status. He wanted to have equal rights to education and that the poor could also be given the opportunity to learn. His purpose was to help others to also find their purpose by learning new skills that could be nurtured to make lives more meaningful.

                Most of us look at life as if we just need to earn money, be wealthy then preserve it and then stop from there. This wasn’t what he needed; he wanted more in life and to find its true meaning by doing something that could change the world for the better. To quote from his movie “Who Are My Own?” he said “real wealth is the ability to think and feel and not being possessed by possessions”. I was moved by this quote because its reality in general. Most people understand wealth by material things driven by self-interest and greed. Many are given the resources that could be put in greater use but is not shared to others. Some are apathetic that have too much but don’t give back to those who are in need. St. La Salle was aware of those things.

         There’s another quote from him during a conversation with his Eminence saying that “if we do not change ourselves, others will do it for us”. The way I understand it, he already knew that he had to embrace change. He already knew that he needs to take the risk and be indifferent to prove his point. If he doesn’t do it then others will but not as soon as he could possibly do. His purpose was to serve and provide equality giving free education. He already knew that he will lose from his competitors and those that protests against his good intentions. It was a heroic act having the courage to lose and fail to what was right. At first he was struggling to maintain and expand his school but along the way he became an inspiration to others and failure became success.

       He dedicated much of his life to the education of poor children in France. He did it without thinking of something in return. He just looked forward and was optimistic about the future of the children. He was very positive in keeping his dream and the dreams of others alive. His example serves as a motivation to accept life and find its meaning. It is by taking the bad to make things better the next time around. If we keep that dream and promise to ourselves, we have to keep it no matter what happens. So we keep on trying and learn from those mistakes or failures and stand up again if we fall instead of wallowing in the dirt. Some of us can’t accept first attempt failures and takes too much time to recover again. It hurts us that deep that we tend to wallow in self-pity and let our dreams die. With just a little damage inflicted upon our system doesn’t mean that we need to give everything up that easy.

        As a person, I believe that those failures and damages are the fundamentals to become stronger. Just like St. La Salle, he never gave up on his goal to provide free education even though he encountered a lot of problems along the way. Determination and perseverance was always his key to success even though it wasn’t the easiest road to follow. It has always been a motivator to realize that you’ve had to be better having experienced the worst. In order to be closer to a certain goal, there are always risks that are needed to be taken for me to be able to get there. It is somehow impossible to have room for growth if I would be just sticking inside my comfort zone. I’ve always wanted to get out there and experience life by learning through failures and stand up again to improve and succeed.

       As a leader, it has always been a motivation for me to think about the alternatives whenever a problem is being encountered. Just like St. La Salle who always found ways to continue his mission to open up schools during those difficult times. The greatest thing that I’ve ever learned I believe is to move on. If I never move on and just cling to the past then I will never make it to the next step and goal. It’s the discipline that motivates me as a leader and it takes time to realize that we don’t always need to look past just to get what we need. There’s always the present and the future that we could be more concerned about and plan to take action then lead it to what happens next.

     As a business leader, it is very important for me to practice compassion. St. La Salle was very compassionate to the poor especially to the children that he wanted to provide free education for them. As he said in the movie “There’s no class distinction among children. If we can open up their minds and reach past the boundaries marked with rich and poor, the world would be a brighter place.” It is always important for me lead by addressing the need of others. I want to put myself among those that are under my lead and understand them better in order to communicate well and share a common goal.

      We can always make a difference whoever we are and whatever we do if we could just easily accept change, we could be the agent of change that will save lives.

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