On one of our class sessions, we had the chance to watch
a film and the topic was about Laws of Money and Life Lessons by Suze Orman. It
was my first time to watch her and she got my attention because I was amazed on
how she explained her topic on stage. Suze Orman is such a powerful and
inspirational speaker where she made a lot of sense and it was an impressive
talk that was an hour worth watching. She discussed the five laws about money
where I think that all of us can relate to. I will enumerate the five laws and
share my thoughts and opinions into each law based on my own experience and
perception.
Law # 1 – Truth creates
money, lies destroy it
In this law, she points out that most of us don’t have
the courage financially to tell the truth. She cited an example of a company
like ENRON where they lied of what the company’s real worth is and what they
really did with the money or the investments that they’ve had from their
investors. Back then, ENRON Company’s stock price skyrocketed and was making
huge investments from investors but they were hiding the truth from the public
all along –the truth that they’re suffering losses and not disclosing it to the
public for personal gain. In the end the truth will always prevail and in their
case, everyone found out about what really happened which damaged not just
their reputation but also to the individuals who invested and believed their
lies.
Financially speaking, lies could burn us alive and our
money with it. ENRON was one example in a bigger picture but looking into
individuals, most of us have this guilt in us –not being financially honest
within ourselves. Most of us have that denial and pretension that we could live
our daily lives more than what we have in our pockets. It is made possible
especially nowadays where credit cards and loans can be easily obtained by an
individual. We enjoy the benefit of it without noticing that with such credit
in our hands we could just literally be living our daily lives in a lie. I have
been always tempted to purchase different kinds of things that are beyond my
financial capacity. I’ve made mistakes and I keep on learning from it. I
believe that it’s all about discipline of how you handle yourself financially.
I believe that is very important to know your place or status of where you
should be and let the truth have its day.
Law # 2 –Look at what you
have and not what you’ve had
“We don’t need to look past just to get what we need” is
always one thing that I keep on telling myself every time. I am not perfect;
there are times when I make the same mistakes because I just can’t get over the
past. Suze Orman mentioned about the
depression that an investor encounters when he suffers from a loss. I am a
stock trader in the stock market and I also have my own personal investments in
stocks. I know how it feels to suffer from a loss and at the same time I know
how others feel about it because I
encounter it from clients whenever there’s a bearish market. Being the
investor, we have choices to make. Internal conflict kicks in when prices turn
sour, so we should quickly assess if we should buy the same investment? If we
should shift to another stock or we could just do nothing about it. As Suze
Orman mentioned, doing nothing is also an option. We can’t always have the
market or our investments are in our favour. I believe that the best thing that
we could learn and figure out early in life is having the strength to move on.
The faster we can move on, the more options and opportunity we could get in
life which is very important. We should value time and get over with feelings
as fast as we can, to quote from a famous saying “time is gold”.
Law # 3 –You have to do
what’s right for you before you do what’s right for your money
We just have to figure out what’s right for us and
managing our own finances effectively will follow. When I was studying in
college I didn’t have the discipline to save money. I’ve only appreciated the
concept of it in when I had a job and realize how difficult it is to earn
money. We could do things with money, we can either spend it in a good way or
in a bad way otherwise we put it aside for savings. Good spending is obviously
purchasing things that are only necessary or investing within the calculated
amount of my purchasing power. Bad spending is just pure recklessness,
carelessness and unmanageability which I am guilty of even as of now. I think
that I’m still finding the balance to be in the right mind to assess my
financial life and value each peso as if it was my last one. Self discipline
and self control plays a large part in this law which would bring me and to
others closer to our goals.
Law # 4 –You must first invest in the known before the
unknown
Investments are very attractive, all of us want to earn
money for ourselves but we need to pick wisely and investigate thoroughly when
investing. There are a lot of investment varieties to choose from, stocks,
bonds, mutual funds, real estate, life insurance etc. Being in the stock market
industry, generally these are the “known” investments. There are a lot of
victims of “unknown” investments. These are scams where they market their
investments promising very high returns which just seem too good to be true.
These institutions or companies raise a lot of ethical questions of how they
operate their businesses. Specifically I am talking about the “networking”
otherwise known as the “pyramid scam” that has already been making fools out of
many people time after time. They register their business by to sell some
products and having a legal permit to operate but the product itself is not the
main business that they do –it’s networking or pyramid scam. This is one type
of fake investment and is an example of the “unknown”. I think that one should
be mentally prepared before entering such an investment. One should educate
himself, attend trainings and seminars which talks about real investments like
stocks or bonds and investigate further before making such an investment. One
could look at the financial statements of a certain company that is approved by
the SEC (Securities and Exchange Commission) preferably companies that already
has a 3 year track record. Having a 3 year record shows the true fundamentals,
nature of business and the cash flow that the company generates from it.
Investment is a must but we should always think smart in everything that we do
specially on investing.
Law # 5 –You must always
remember that money has no power of its own
Suze Orman defined this law saying that money will never
define who you are which means that you will be the one who will define what
you do with your money. This takes me back to law # 3 which states that you
should do first what’s right for you before you do what’s right for your money.
Doing the right things, making the best efforts to make the right choices could
give us the power to manage our money effectively. Suze also mentioned that
others won’t do anything because of the fear of making the wrong move. Well
there’s always a risk/reward ratio for everything, the higher the risk the
higher the return. We must know ourselves better than anyone else in order to
figure out our risk appetite. We should evaluate how far would we go for
spending for an investment, let’s say stocks for instance. A basic example is
giving a certain percentage of how can far you can tolerate a gain or loss.
Let’s say we set the limit of 10% in a stock loss, we sell the stock to cut
loss so we still have a 90% to fund another stock or investment of your choice.
On the other hand we realize a profit of 10% and sell the stock to realize a
gain because it is not guaranteed that it would stay that way, it might fall
back again to your break-even point o worse is it declines further than the
purchase price.
We encounter these laws and lessons in our everyday
lives. Money has a lot to do in our everyday survival but it’s not the only
thing that has value in this life. There are things money can’t buy and those
things are priceless. Our nature, the environment, the earth, the universe and
every precious moment that happens through time which does not involve money
are things that we should further notice and appreciate in life. The air that
we breathe, the stars that we gaze upon, the sunlight that gives life to our
planet and the warmth of love are some of the things I value more than money
itself.